Gay, Straight, Back and White

Remember, ages ago, when it wasn’t right for a ‘black or ‘coloured’ person should not be married? Or be ‘together’?

Nope, me neither. So, why are we arguing about girls wanting to marry girls or, boys wanting to marry boys?

I know I have read a lot about how ‘blacks’ did not belong with a white man/woman. Who the hell decides this? Who decides who can love who?

My Sam came from a religious background where as I came from an army, move about background. I can tell you right now that I do not wish to enter into a life where I came from. Where a man felt it his right to ‘bash’ his wife for no reason. I am sure Sam feels it is not ‘my’ right being with him to go to church every Sunday.

I have an amazing friend who is neither white nor black but in the olden days, I am pretty sure her love for her ‘white’ man would be fround upon but today, it is ok,

So, why can my daughter, who is in love with another woman, not freely marry the one she loves? Why do ‘we’ find it such an outrage in today’s society? Today an African woman can marry an English man. My Hungarian/Asian friend can marry a Ben. (Sorry Ben, I don’t know what you are πŸ™‚ )

There should be no government, Facebook page, society or group that can block such a love, a union of people who love one another.

There is a good chance I will ‘lose’ a group of people who may follow me but come on….. there was a time we couldn’t associate with coloured people and now, we are supposed to oppose a marriage between same sex couples? I know a lot of marriages that should never have happened.

Let love be love. Keep your nose out of it and it wont ‘affect; you.

What does it matter to you if a black marries a white? What does it matter if a girl marries a girl? A boy marries a boy?

It is none of your business so, stay out of it and all will be good.

My baby girl is in love with another persons baby girl. These two girls are now woman who are in love with each other. It is not up to me, her father, her family or anyone to judge. If my girl is happy, that is all I care about. I am sure the same is for my daughters partner.

At the end of the day, how does it affect you?

Look out of your back window. Is the love of my daughter with her partner affecting you right now? Are you seeing something disgusting outside your window? No. It is only what is in your mind that is affecting you.

Let love be love.

This is me and my baby girl xx


11 thoughts on “Gay, Straight, Back and White

  1. Accalia

    Didn’t I tell you just the other day you were the best mummy ever? You disagreed you silly lady! I love you so much! πŸ’›πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’šβ€οΈπŸ’—πŸ’›πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’šβ€οΈπŸ’—

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    1. I don’t think any mother can agree or admit to being the best mother out there but to see you smile, be happy and ‘as one’ is alll I need to see. Sorry for being a ‘silly lady’ but you know what, I know I have done A OK with you. You my darling girl, rock my world xxxxx


  2. Well said!! I admire you for being open, understanding, supportive and wise. Your daughter is lucky to have you. I agree with all you said. I support LOVE, period! It doesn’t matter where it flourishes as long as it’s love.


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